Today when I was scrolling my Instagram and reading the posts , memes and all suddenly a post came in front of my eyes when I read it it was a news post on a suicidal case a boy committed suicide because she was facing some problems in his relationship . I don't know what difficulties were he facing and what were the situations in his life which forced him to commit suicide . But in my opinion SUICIDE IS NOT AN OPTION OR SOLUTION OF ANY KIND OF PROBLEM because there are many thing happen in our life which sometimes gives us courage , positive feelings , encouragement and motivation but sometimes frustrated , demotivation , discouragement and negative feelings because of which our mind starts thinking negatively and because of that we just think about dying and we think that doing this all our problems will be finished . And apart from this ,we don't think of any other options . even once we don't think of our parents, friends & relatives . we just think that we need to get rid of this problem , even if it is getting in anyway. Everyone in this world face problems sometimes big , sometimes small and if there is problem then there will be a solution also and you have to find it . I accept that it will take some time to get a solution but at least giving a little time to your problems is better than taking your own life. I have seen that even before suicide , people don't think about their parents even once, what will happen to their parents after they leave .
If any of you facing these types of situations just talk to someone like your parents , friends , cousins of your age group so that you don't fell burden on you because they'll give you suggestions which will help you . But please don't think suicide as an option or solution it just give sadness and regrets to your parents that they were not able to understand you , your emotions and what were you going through . They blame themselves for these kind of incidents. If you have any kind of problems just talk to your parents because no one in this world understand you better than your parents maybe they will get angry because of those things or maybe they you'll get slapped by them but don't take it as restrictions or anything negatively if they do so that because they care for you and you didn't realize it that time but after sometime you will be able to understand their care, concern and love for you when you think about it peacefully .
Just give sometimes to your problems try hard and your best to sort it out if nothing happens then just let it be don't htink about negative things and move on in your life and after that do not look back at those things again which makes you sad because your life is more precious than a relationship .....
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